Lets Talk About Love

To different people, love has different meanings. People define the word love based on their understanding of the topic. Love is a word that is often used in a relationship. In the absence of it, a relationship suffers. The statement, “I love you” is common among humans.

But what exactly is love? Is it just a mere expression of affection, feeling, or sexual lust? We understand that any relationship that is not built on love is like a house whose foundation is built on sand. It suffers loss even at slightest storm.

Many people make the mistake of interpreting their feelings , attractions, affections as love. While those things can fade away, true love cannot. Any relationship built on on all those behaviours is bound to fail at the disappearance of those traits.

What then is true love? For us to understand what a true love is all about, permit me to make a reference to the bible. In John 3:16, the bible says, "For God so love the world that He gave Hid only begotten Son that whosoever believe in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.  Suffice it to say that for there to be a true love, there must be a giving (sacrifice). even in a relationship, you must have to give away some of your highly esteemed passions in order to grow love between you and your partner. Nobody eats his cake and still have it. There must be a giving away for love to thrive.

Couples should learn how to give up some of their attitudes that does not augur well with their partner. Until that happens, true love can never be manifested. Couples should also learn to tolerate those traits that are impossible to change. That is what true love stands for - sacrifice and tolerance.

Love they say covers multitudes of sins. In order words, love covers multitudes of faults. Humans are full of faults and errors, only love can cover such errors and faults. Lets give love a chance!

I strongly believe you have learnt something from this piece of article. Let me know how it has affected your thought through your comments. Love You!


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