Reasons Why Girls Are Not Expected To Be 100% Faithful in a Pre-marital Relationship

Before any marriage, there must be a relationship. In fact, most marriages are products of relationships. Relationships are necessary because it is through it that the parties involve understand each other thereby, deciding whether to tolerate their individual weaknesses.  To some people or groups, relationship is known by the name ‘courtship’. To demonstrate the importance of relationship or courtship, even Churches give intending couples room to go through a period of courtship.

I have pondered on this issue of relationship especially as it relates to our contemporary world where people go in and out of relationships on daily basis. Faithfulness in my opinion is the greatest ingredient required in any relationship. It is expected that the two parties involved in a relationship be faithful to each other. To be faithful in a relationship means to make your partner the only person in your private life at that particular point in time.

In relationship, the ideal thing is for partners to be 100% faithful to each other. But, it’s very unfortunate that many relationships nowadays lack this. Both boys and girls who are in pre-marital relationships today are found to be unfaithful. That your girlfriend/boyfriend who swears to you with both heaven and earth that you were the only one in his/her life is only lying to you. It is extremely difficult for two persons who are yet to be married to be 100 percent faithful. What we witness today in relationships is gambling. It’s on that basis that I seriously pondered on why most of relationships are so and, conclusively arrived at some findings. I discovered from my research that most girls who where faithful in their relationships came out regretting. Some of the factors for their regrets formed the subject of this article. Read them below.


I come to understand that most girls are not faithful with their partners because they are afraid of disappointment. It has been noticed that many guys dump their girlfriends when it comes to marriage. Guys seem to go for other girls whom they suddenly think has better qualities than their present girlfriend thereby, leaving the girls disappointed after waiting patiently for many years. It is a fact that most girls have marriage in mind when dating a guy, but when that expectation is battered the girl faces a possible heartbreak. As a result of that, girls who are usually the victims of relationship breakups deem it fit to have other guys around them who they can fall on incase of a collapse in one of their relationships.

Better Chances

It is normal to believe that one who has her eggs in different baskets has a better plan for risk than one who puts everything in one basket. Girls believe that they stand a better chance of getting married when they date more than one guy. Though girls can be in multiple relationships, they pay more attention to one than the others. It’s believed that they do this to protect themselves and also to enhance their chances of quickly settling down.

Time Factor

If girls were to focus on one partner without having anything to do with other guys, they may run out of time as one unserious guy can deceptively keep them in relationship without finally taking them as wives. Some guys can be wicked, in their heart they knew that they won’t marry you but won’t still let you go. In such circumstance, some girls who hopefully wait for the day he would propose only for the guy to abruptly end the relationship have all the time spent in the relationship wasted. If she were to be 100% faithful, a lot of time would have been wasted without good result.

It is my wish that all the parties involved in a relationship be faithful. There is nothing as good as faithfulness in relationship. Faithfulness can save you a lot of trouble; it can spear you the risk of viral diseases and other things. Therefore, I candidly recommend this pill for all the people in relationships.

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