How to Easily Achieve Your Dreams in 2016

How to Easily Achieve Your Dreams in 2016
One of the common attributes of man is the ability to dream dreams. Every human at one point or the other aspire for set dreams. Dreams on its own can be realised or not. When it is realised, the dreamer is said to be very fulfilled. But when dreams shatter, the dreamer feels unfulfilled and frustrated. 

Every year, millions of people give themselves targets of where they want to see themselves. While some people dreams to be gainfully employed, some others dream to be employers of labour. In other cases, some people dream to get married, buy a car, build house(s) etc. As the year 2015 is fast becoming a history, many people who set  dreams for themselves seem not to have still realised those dreams. 

To avoid a repeat of such a state in the year 2016, we have come up with a model that will help people fulfill their dreams for the year. Just as it is said that faith without work is dead, dreams without strategy is dead on arrival. We need to back up our dreams with a measurable effort to have it come true.

Therefore, in order for you to actualize your dreams for the year 2016, you will need to work with a GOAL. A goal can be defined as a desired result that a person or a system envisions, plans and commits to achieve. Many people endeavour to reach a goal within a finite time by setting deadline. 

In setting a goal, it is advised that we follow SMART Model. SMART Model involves establishing specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time bounded objectives. The process of setting goals allows individuals to specify and then work towards their own objectives such as financial or career goals. 

Goal setting entails a major component of personal development and management. You can set a long-term, immediate, and/or short-term goals. The major difference lies on the time frame.
For somebody who wants to achieve great things in the upcoming year, setting a goal of what you desire in the year is a very clear way to get there. Goals will help you to monitored your progress and development at each time frame. When you set your goal for the year 2016, split it into short-term goals. You can decide to measure your goals in every three months, to ensure that you achieve your desired results. This for sure is a good way to achieve your dreams without too much stress. 

I wish that everyone I know will make it big this coming year. As a result, I take out time to write this article to help us. Without a goal, we have no expectations. And when we have do expectation, we don't stand a chance to work hard. We must set SMART goals this coming year 2016 in order to remain in charge.

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Avoid These Common Condom Mistakes That People Do

Avoid These Common Condom Mistakes That People Do
One common feature of today's sex affairs is the use of condom. Condom has been proven to be very effective in preventing STIs and pregnancy. In a bid to avoid contracting disease and the incidence of pregnancy, sex partners has resorted to the use of condom.

To effectively use condom to prevent the risk of infections and pregnancy, it is important to arm yourself with knowledge of how to play safe. We call it a duty to provide such useful information to enable people espace the risks associated with unprotected sex adventure. I urge  you to lend me your ears as I discuss with you common condom mistakes that has jeopardized the health of many ignorant folks.

1. Not checking expiry date

Condom just like every other products has expiry day. It is important to check the expiry date of your condoms before use.

2. Forgetting to check for damages

Some people are too inquisitive to action that they care to check the soundness of condoms before sex. According to Indiana University review of studies, about 83 percent of women and 75 percent of men failed to check condoms before use.  Instead of assuming that the rubber is ready for action, take a bit to make sure the wrapper doesn’t look worn out and the condom isn’t sticky, brittle, discolored, or damaged.

3. Doubling up

Some people usually make the mistake of thinking that if one condom is great at preventing pregnancy and STDs, then two condoms should be even better. This belief is very wrong. Layering two condoms can dramatically increase the chance of Breakage and slipping off, especially if you are using a lubricated type, says Dr. Streicher. Doubling condom creates friction which can cause tire.

4. Using the wrong lube

Come to think of it, lube can be a great addition to your condom experience. It does not only make sex more enjoyable, but it also helps prevent the latex from tearing or ripping. However, choosing the wrong lubricant could spell disaster. “Not all lubricants are condom-compatible,” says Dr. Streicher. Any oil-based product may cause break-down of condoms. You may want to stick with water-based or silicone-based, or a mixture of both.

5. Not storing it properly

Some people form the habit of storing condom in their wallets. This they do to have it readily available any time the need arise. It is important to know that the bending and friction can weaken the condom and cause tiny holes thereby rendering the rubber totally useless. Again, if you keep your wallet in your pocket, your body heat can also degrade the sheath. Instead, make sure you keep condoms in a cool, dry place away from sunlight or heat.

6. Not leaving room at the tip of the condom

The tip of the condom is called the reservoir, which holds the cum after you ejaculate in it. Ensure to squeeze the tip when you put the condom on in order to make room for the ejaculate, otherwise it might spill out the sides, opined Kerner.

7. Not putting it on properly

If you mistakenly put the condom on upside-down (where the rim is facing down instead of up), it probably will not unroll all the way. You just need to take it off and start afresh with a new condom, as that one could have some pre-ejaculate on it, says Herbenick. The condom ought to roll down easily and reach the base if the penis.

8. Not wearing the right size

It is very important to try out different condoms to find the one that is best for you. If you notice the condom doesn’t roll all the way down to the base of the penis or it seems too tight, it probably is not your size. Condoms actually rarely break, so if it has happened to you a few times, you probably need a larger size or more lube, stated Herbenick. But if the condom seems too roomy or it slips or slides when you are having sex, look for a smaller size. Always bear in mind that you might be one size in one brand and another size in another brand; just like jeans.

9. Not pulling of immediately after sex

Though some men still sustain erection after ejaculation, it is important to immediately remove condom after you ejaculate. Continuing to fire with the same condom after ejaculation could amount to risk. It can lead to tire or possible slip. The sperm can cause more room thereby causing the condom to slip into the Virgina. Always change condom after ejaculating on the first one
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The Problems With The Use of Condoms

The Problems With The Use of Condoms
As day goes by, new developments grace human endeavours. The use of condoms is one of such developments. Sexual affairs has demand that parties protect themselves against unpleasant eventualities. Days are gone when men and women have unprotected sex. Those that still engage in unprotected sexual behaviours does it at their own risk which include dreadly infections and pregnancy. 

Infections and pregnancy are the man reason why condom was developed in the first place. When dangerous infections began to threaten human race, medical experts came up with the idea of condom. This is to protect people from contracting diseases during sex and to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

 Condom so far has been helpful to this regard, but it is worthy to note that condom is not 100 percent safe. A number of setbacks has been associated with condoms. These setbacks forms the idea of this article. It becomes necessary to write so as to educate people on how to play safe. This is because life has no duplicate. HIV today still don't have any known cure. Unwanted pregnancy has also destroyed the future of many young people. Left to me, abstinence remains the only safe option. 

But because it is only insignificant population that chose the path of abstinence, information on the dangers inherent becomes necessary. Let's now look at the problems.

1. Pregnancy 

Condom is extremely effective in preventing conception, but there has been reported few cases where couples using condom regularly witness pregnancy. Planned Parenthood states that two of every 100 women whose partners used condoms became pregnant even when they were used properly. Among those who did not use condoms properly, 15 of every 100 women became pregnant. You see, condom can't be 100 percent trusted to prevent conception.

2. Latex Allergy

Most condoms are made from rubber latex, that come from the fluid in rubber trees. According to American Academy of Allergy, Asthma & Immunology, some people experience an allergic response to the protein in the rubber. Symptoms of such allergy can vary in presentation and severity, including sneezing, runny nose, hives, itching or flushing to more severe signs and symptoms, such as wheezing, swelling, dizziness, and light headedness. In some cases, latex allergies can invoke anaphylaxis, a life-threatening condition. Planned Parenthood states that only one or two people out of every 100 has latex allergy.

3. STIs

Condom has been proven to be very effective in the prevention of HIV and other STIs. However, infections such as skin infections cannot be prevented by the use if condom. The American Social Health Association notes that although condoms can reduce the risk of genital herpes, they don't protect every part of the skin in which the herpes virus can asymptomatically shed and be transmitted to an infected sexual partner.

4. Possible Breakage

Another problem associated with condom is that it can possibly break during sex action. Condoms when precautions are not taken by the users can break during sex. To avoid break, ensure that you properly put it on. There should be space for sperm at the tip. Also, ensure that you don't trap air within. When proper precautions are taken, condom break is reduced to the bearest minimum. 

So when next you want to use condom for sex, bear all these in mind.
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15 Interesting Fact About Sex That You Need to Know

15 Interesting Fact About Sex That You Need to Know
To some people, sex is a very interesting topic of discuss, while to others it is a sacred and/or forbidden area. This explains why some parents shy away from giving their children proper sex education. It is a statement of fact that many people that engage in regular sex know little about the subject. Knowledge they say is power. The amount of information at your disposal places you in charge of things. The more you know about sex the more you appreciate the subject. 

Today we will be dealing on the topic head-on. We will be looking at some vital facts about sex that should never be neglected. This is owed to the abuse the subject faces in our society nowadays. This article even though can be read by all, primarily targets adults. Let's try to digest the information therein to enable us improve our individual lives.

Now, below are the facts:

1. Sex is sweet. Sex seems to be sweeter than any experience we can think of. Some people will tell you that it is the sweetest thing the world. The feeling is in-explainable at times. You just lack the word to express the pleasurable experience.

2. Before God, sex is only approved for married couples. Any sex done outside marriage is either referred to as adultery or fornication.

3. The Bible did not condemn sex but  is only against premarital and extramarital sex.

4. A good sex can serve as a wonderful exercise. Exercise as we know is very good for our health. A regular sex can serve as such.

5. The more couples have sex, the less their chances of cutting up into infidelity.

6. Both men and women are aroused to sex equally, research shows that no particular party is more prone to sex than the other.

7. While some people feel very satisfied after sex, others seem to be regretting their actions.

8. Their is no age limit to sexual arousal, both the young and old engage in sexual activities.

9. Most people who lose their virginity between ages of fifteen and nineteen actually wish they had waited a bit longer. Moreover, most teenagers lose their virginity by age 17, but those who have not lost their virginity by 24 tend to stay a virgin.

10. Unprotected sex is a gateway to deadly infections and pregnancy.

11. In as much as the size of the penis relates to sexual satisfaction, the man's skill has much to do.

12. Sustaining erection is a psychological game, your ability to control your emotions determines how long you can last during sex.

13. It is not everybody that talks during sexual intercourse.

14. Your sex life is a function of your health, the healthier the more active in bed.

15. If not for God and disease, every man will love to taste every beautiful woman that comes his way. 

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